When the the woman is leading the connection, telling you exactly what she desires, how things are probably going to be done, bringing a number one part, then you might should reevaluate

We have also heard some horror stories about gringos marrying foreign women; one such story was from a man who took his Philippine bride back to the United States and after gaining a bit of the u.s. feminist culture she divorced him and took him for everything he's got, probably the kid he has got together with her. We know the man personally. There are many such unfortunate stories in the feminist culture that is the u.s.a. Update 2018: It's always sad to hear these stories about men and women who lost their children because they married a foreigner and then the foreign person moved back to their country and took the children with them. Will it happen to you? Depends on if you TRULY know the woman you marry. and in your case, it looks like you don't know her at all. ..and if you continue to allow her to behave in this way, she would seem to us to be a selfish woman who only cares about what she can get from you. Knowing this then you wouldn't need to come all the way to Ecuador, wasting all that money to meet with her. You already have your answer. Update 2018 - We have a lot of good things to say about Ecuadorian women because we have had many positive interactions and relationships with them. We're parents to an Ecuadorian daughter now and love her to pieces and she is wonderful and we've been blessed but not all Ecuadorian women are going to be marriage material.